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But after a while novelty wanes, the relationship settles down, and the erotic is replaced by the every day. I call this Marriage Incorporated: two people love each other but their relationship becomes a business instead of a romance. Kids, careers, soccer practice, tax returns, and peeing with the door open. They do everything together but each. Sex falls way down the priority list. The typical sexual encounter in a long-term relationship is less than seven minutes from nudge to snore.
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But what if he can become the new partner she seeks? Instead of opening their marriage to other people, what if they open their marriage to each other?
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