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When I admitted this to my fellow GO coworkers, they were appalled. Two of them quickly listed off at least 10 films I needed to watch right away. I want to take you all along with me in my quest to review all of the lesbian classics through my Millennial queer lens.
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So this week, I decided to switch it up and go for a book instead. The plane was lifting off the tarmac and tears were streaming down my face within the first three paragraphs. Feinberg starts off the book with the most beautiful love letter written by Jess Goldberg, a young butch lesbian, addressed to an ex femme lover.
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I feared that all masculinity was toxic.
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And while this book was written in the 90s, not much has changed. However, the characters I most related to and found my home in were the femmes.
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I felt a deep knowing in that moment that queer relationships are inherently radical because our existence is resistance. Our imperfections. Our flaws.
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And that through all of that, we are still deserving of love. Feinberg revolutionized the ways in which we understand gender identity and genderqeerness through her writing.
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To all my queer and trans siblings: I see you and I love you.